True-Happiness

You know there's a huge abundance out there; the universe has more than enough for every body to prosper and be happy. Have you ever had to struggle to do something? Is it because there wasn’t enough to go around, or because you did not personally have it?

The universe provides everything you need and desire to live and be happy. Have you had to struggle to breathe air? Probably not; there's just so much of it out there waiting to be sucked in! Have you found the same to be true? There is enough of what we have to have to survive for everyone. Alright; but what about riches: How do you get your share?

There's enough of it out there on this planet for everyone to have plenty; it's just a case of how do we get our share? You do that by moving towards your desire, not move away from what you don’t desire.

So what does that mean? It means simple that by moving towards your desire you create your own reality and live the life you choose. Unfortunately the way most of us live; is to move away from what we do not desire.

Let us use an example: Let’s say you desire to be fit and trim. Your goal would be to do exercise and diet to achieve the level of fitness desired. You would do the exercise regime and diet program eagerly as you were keeping your minds eye on the dream of being fit and trim. You look forward towards the vision of being fit and trim so you do not suffer the regime you must do to accomplish your goal. You are happy to eat right and exercise regularly because it is making you fit and trim, which is your dream.

What happens to most of us is we try to move away from what we don’t want. We know we are a few pounds overweight, we don’t want to be and so we start on a diet and try some exercise. We do not look forward, we push to try to get away from what we don’t want; and so we struggle with the diet, we do a couple of exercises unwillingly and half-heartedly. We are not happy; as we are looking the wrong way, we are trying to move away from what we do not desire. We are keeping in mind what we don’t want and so are trying to change by forcing ourselves to lose weight. After a few days or weeks we lose a few pounds and quit the exercise and diet routine as we are making progress; losing the weight and somehow we assume the rest will happen automatically. We usually end up a few bonus pounds heavier than when we started because we concentrated on what we did not want.

We create the things we focus our thoughts on the most; we also do and become what we focus on. In one example we concentrated on fit and trim and so we did become so. In the other example we concentrated on being over weight and so we did become so. Keep in mind that the goal was the same; it was the focus that was wrong. In one case the focus was on the goal, the other the focus was on the problem.

You accomplish what you want by always focusing on the desire. You create your dream by staying focused on the dream. By moving towards your desire you help it come into reality. Conversely if you try to move away from what you have now, you are focusing the wrong way and will get more of what you are trying to move away from.

So change the way you think about your dreams and goals, focus on the desired end result, and soon you will have it.

Be Blessed

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